“ When an event occurs, verbatim memory records an accurate representation. But even as it is doing so, gist memory begins processing the information and determining how it fits into our existing storehouse of knowledge. Verbatim memories generally die away within a day or two, leaving only the gist memory, which records the event as we interpreted it.
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The above quote from a new study made me think about the fact that I rarely if ever remember exactly what was said in emotionally charged situations. Even right afterwards, I only remember how I felt about the events unfolding before me. One time an ex told me that I never really listened, because I was always thinking of what to say next. But since I don’t remember anything about that guy except how I felt, I guess this weird memory tic we all have is actually useful.
(via rach)